Wednesday, October 7, 2009

THERE IS A FATHER FOR THIS CHILD ALSO

www.nationnews.com "Searching for mother of abandoned baby" comment to news item.
IT NEVER SEEMS TO OCCUR TO ANYONE REPORTING OR INVESTIGATING THIS TYPE OF CASE THAT MANY MORE TIMES THAN NOT THE FATHER'S ARE INVOLVED IN THE ACT AND MAY HAVE BEEN THE ONE TO HAVE ASSISTED IN THE DELIVERY AND ABANDONMENT. OR THIS CHILD IS A PRODUCT OF A CRIME AGAINST AN UNDER AGE CHILD WHO HAS A SITUATION THAT WAS PERPETRATED ON THEM BOTH. ITS TIME SOCIETY STOP THE GENDER BIAS ON FEMALES AS THE ONE WHO ALWAYS DOES THE BABY ABANDONING JUST AS THEY ALSO HAVE THE GENDER BIAS FOR THE MALE CAST IN OF NOT BEING A RAPE VICTIM IF HE HAS BEEN. THERE IS JOINT RESPONSIBILITIES HERE FOR THE PARENTS OF THE CHILD AND THERE ARE TWO SETS OF FAMILIES THIS CHILD IS A MEMBER OF UNKNOWN AS THEY MAY BE. IF THE SITUATION IS ONE WHERE A TOURIST COUPLE HAS DONE THIS AND LEFT THE ISLAND, WHAT WILL THEY DO. SHE SEEMS TOO YOUNG TO DETERMINE HER NATIONALITY FROM THE PHOTO, SO HOPEFULLY THERE WILL BE SOME FAMILY THAT CAN HELP HER GET PAST THIS HURT AS SHE GROWS AND SHIELD HER FROM KNOWING THIS BECAUSE OF THE LIFE LONG DAMAGE IT COULD DO MENTALLY. THAT THIS STORY SHOULD NOT FOLLOW HER IN HER ADOPTION IF IT OCCURS. PEOPLE SOMETIMES CAN BE CRUEL TO A CHILD'S ESTEEM EVEN WHEN THEY ARE ADULTS IT CAN HARM TO KNOW THIS. SHE IS MEANT TO HAVE SURVIVED OR ELSE THEY WOULD HAVE JUST KILLED HER RATHER THAN LEAVE HER ALIVE. THEY WANTED HER TO BE FOUND. TOO BAD THEY DON'T HAVE A WAY TO PINPOINT THE FATHER TOO. NEW DNA TEST ALREADY CAN DO THIS THESE DAYS. THESE PEOPLE NEED SERIOUS HELP TO HAVE THIS HAPPEN. WE ACCEPT AS A SOCIETY THE IDEA THAT A CHILD ONLY BELONGS TO THE WOMAN THROUGH THE PREGNANCY AND DELIVERY. CHILDREN ARE FIRST BIRTHED FROM THEIR FATHERS INTO THEIR MOTHERS AND KEEPING THAT DATE IS JUST AS IMPORTANT AS THE DELIVERY DATE. CHILDREN FIRST BEING ABANDONED BY THEIR FATHERS BEFORE THEY ARE BORN IS JUST AS HARMFUL SOCIALLY AND MENTALLY, BUT SOCIETY HAS ADAPTED TO THIS FORM AS ACCEPTABLE AND LESS DAMAGING. YET WE ALL KNOW HOW GOOD IT IS WHEN FATHERS ARE SUPPORTIVE PARTNERS IN THEIR PREGNANCY AS A COUPLE.

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